I have none, and it's stressing me out. No, seriously! I know I will probably eat my words at some point, but legitimately, I am not worried about this wedding at all and it's bugging me out! When does the stress come? When do the fights happen? When will I inexplicably lose 5-10 lbs without trying??

All joking aside (because I don't want to be stressed or fight with my lovely fiance), I'm puzzled by my current state. All of the big items on our to-do list have been done for almost months, and I go days without doing anything wedding related. It's only when someone brings it up do I realize that, OH! I'm getting married in 8 months!

I was an event planner for years, so lots of the dealing with vendors, and organizing / negotiating comes easily to me, but I won't flatter myself and think that I'm just miraculously so ahead of schedule that I'm breezing through my engagement. I honestly feel like I'm forgetting something!

So here I am again asking you all for advice - what do you wish someone had told you about wedding planning? Did you procrastinate at all and leave something to the last minute?

Fill me in, GIVE ME YOUR SECRETS!

xoxo,

photo by Julia Elizabeth.