#scratchfor50 winners!

Oh, good morning :) As a reminder, we're giving away a $50 Nordstrom Gift Card to one extremely creative, wonderfully ambitious LRW reader today, and custom bracelets to two other readers who are hard at work making every day a piece of art.

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Thank you all for participating and inspiring us! What a truly incredible 50 days. Here's to you!

FIRST PLACE:

@kfmck

RUNNERS UP:

@robinfusco

@g_ting

Please email littleredswell [at] gmail [dot] com to claim your prizes!

Stay warm today, guys! This weather is crazy!

 

photograph by Craig Hanson Photography.

resistance: taming the beast

I have tried to operate my adult life by the mantra: If it scares you, then you should probably do it. There is an instinctive part of me that knows growth necessitates starting before you're ready, giving yourself permission to play big, and swimming in discomfort for awhile. I know that if I want to do bigger and better things with the time I'm given, I have to get fully exposed and authentic in front of you. But still, there's that voice that says, maybe next time, slow down, hold off, wait and see, let them ask you first.

frResistance. I know I've mentioned this in more than one blog post; it's a cornerstone of most of Allie and my conversations; it just keeps coming back for more. And here's the reason: when you are on the verge of doing some really incredible stuff - Resistance gets all pouty and up in your face. When you start talking yourself out of it, having second thoughts, listing all the reasons it would never work, you can be certain you've gotten cosmic orders to proceed.

And truthfully, sometimes it is really hard to figure out if you're pursuing something for the achievement-based side of your brain, or for the truly passionate side of your brain. But for me, I know Resistance when I meet her and so I do the only thing that has ever kept that b!+@# at bay: I put my butt in the chair, or in the audition room, or in the studio. I just get to work. Then this great thing happens... I feel good.

In my opinion, if you do the thing, feel good, and encounter Resistance, that is a recipe for must pursue. Getting clear on feeling good is key because when we resist things that don't actually make us feel good, that's our true nature calling out to us in the form of instinct. And trust me, there are plenty of things we should be resisting. But if you get your butt in the chair and the act of doing, uncomfortable though it may be at first, eventually makes you feel like you breathe a little easier, you can be sure you're in the right spot. You can also be sure that you'll meet Resistance again. But this you can use. You can allow Resistance to be the trigger for your creative mind to say, let's do this. It's go time.

When you look Resistance square in the eye and face the beast...

No one cares about my opinion turns into I could help.

I am nowhere near qualified turns into I'll figure it out as I go.

Everyone will laugh at me turns into how can I get my creation to serve others?

She knows how to do this so much better than me turns into I'm inspired by her.

He's already done what I'm doing turns into let me riff on that.

Your work becomes easy. Not necessarily simple, but light, easy to handle, charged with the effortlessness that comes from pure joy.  It is bigger and better for it. And guess what else? So are you.

What do you resist doing or creating the most?

the art of self-promotion

Sharing. Your. Work. In a climate of constant self-promotion, it feels like every time you log in, you're consuming someone's material: their blog posts (cough, cough), their successful looking profile pictures, their Playbill.com links (holler if you hear me theatre-lovers). It's so easy to get wrapped up in the mental discourse that goes something like, oh my God, not another example of just how successful he is, I could never share that much, I could never put myself out there like that.

autoWhen Allie and I first created LRW, there was a lot of shared anxiety about putting ourselves "out there." Even though we are far away from you, with computer screens and keyboards and cyberspace keeping us physically isolated, we felt awfully exposed. And when we decided that we wanted to grow the blog, gain more followers, do affiliate marketing, and create a long term plan - we had to expose ourselves even more.

Personally, I walk this line through every - single - thing - I do. I have my hand in three professions where self-promotion is inherent and utterly required: acting, fitness, blogging. On top of which, I love promoting my friends' and husband's work. I could link away all day until you were connected to everyone and every thing I've ever loved. And there is a part of me that feels anxious about that. Am I being annoying? Being presumptuous? Having too much nerve? And then there's this other part...

showCraig recently directed me to a post from Brain Pickings (Do you read this blog? YOU MUST!) where Maria Popova unpacks the book Show Your Work by Austin Kleon. He posits that promoting your work, getting yourself seen, is crucial to actually creating your deep and meaningful work:

Social media sites function a lot like public notebooks—they’re places where we think out loud, let other people think back at us, then hopefully think some more. But the thing about keeping notebooks is that you have to revisit them in order to make the most out of them. You have to flip back through old ideas to see what you’ve been thinking. Once you make sharing part of your daily routine, you’ll notice themes and trends emerging in what you share. You’ll find patterns in your flow.

When you detect these patterns, you can start gathering these bits and pieces and turn them into something bigger and more substantial. You can turn your flow into stock. For example, a lot of the ideas in this book started out as tweets, which then became blog posts, which then became book chapters. Small things, over time, can get big.

voiceThere's this Steven Pressfield quote I love (and have tweeted): "The amateur tweets - the pro works." I hear him. He's suggesting that the more we engage in frivolous tallying and comparing and online-quiz-taking, the less we are creating. But Kleon goes toward a different hypothesis, which is that self-promotion is part of the creative act. The online act of engaging with your community, giving them something of value, and figuring it out as you go (amateur that you are) becomes an act of creative revolution:

Amateurs [are] just regular people who get obsessed by something and spend a ton of time thinking out loud about it… Raw enthusiasm is contagious.

The world is changing at such a rapid rate that it’s turning us all into amateurs. Even for professionals, the best way to flourish is to retain an amateur’s spirit and embrace uncertainty and the unknown.

I wonder if we treated our online communities like visionary communes instead of insecurity dumping grounds if we might all just sink our teeth into our true and raw potential: that spark of excitement that splits into a courageous attempt which morphs into a new conceptualization that forms itself into some real Work.

freeIt's worth considering as we round out our #scratchfor50 challenge in the next two weeks that if we whole-heartedly commit to not only making our work, but sharing it with others, that self-promotion might turn into an actual promotion. Elevating us to the next level. Connecting the dots where before were only impossible gaps. Creating a buzz around our deepest desires in order to not just look ahead at what our work could be some day, but to the present moment and what our work looks like right now. Our flawed and imperfect and utterly useful work.

I guess my point is: let's flood each other's inboxes and newsfeeds with good, real, raw, creative, amateurish-gonna-be-something-someday work that defines who we are and this moment we exist in. Let's burn up our anxieties with the practice of exposure. Let's find our voices and let 'er rip.

What do you want to share with us?

images via Pinterest

 

help us celebrate!

Today is special for two reasons: 1) This is our 100th post right he-yah! and 2) We are 25 days into our 50 Day Challenge, #scratchfor50! IMG_0976

What does that mean for us? Gratitude.

Thank you for reading, for commenting, for encouraging, for sharing, for making us a part of your daily life, for believing in us, for following us, for telling your friends and family about us, for making us feel so supported and so loved.

What does that mean for you? More chances to win prizes!

#scratchfor50 is not over yet. All the details of the contest are right here. But just because you may not have started yet, doesn't mean you shouldn't! You have 25 days to make a creative difference in your life, to take in all the creative aspects of your day and honor them, to carve out places where you could exercise that creativity a little bit more. A late start is better than not starting at all, and we'd love to see the world through your eyes.

Wondering who has jumped on board and what they've made so far? Hop on over to InstaGram, Twitter, and FB and search the hashtag #scratchfor50. Prepare to be instantly inspired.

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