don't be seduced by the sale

Good morning, friends! It has been a seriously busy week around here, and I've been itching to get back to blogging. First of all, thank you so much for all your love and support surrounding the new site! I'm so pumped about it and it seems to be getting a great reception and for that I thank you!

Sale shopping. Oof. If you're anything like me, you feel a little bit of panic when you see an email from your favorite retailer announcing a sale. Especially this time of year, when money has been blown on the holidays, it can sometimes be stressful to learn about a sale. For me, it's partly because I need to look; sales are so seductive! If there's one thing I've learned over the years, though, it's that shopping a sale takes a little pre-planning. Otherwise you end up with a size XL silk shirt that you have no idea what to do with but can't return because it was final sale (yup, I did that). Here are some tips on how to thoughtfully and carefully shop a sale :: 

 

1. Only shop sales at your favorite retailers :: Wait, what? Hear me out. When you consider worst case scenarios like above (blindly shopping a sale and then regretting your purchase), you need to filter out temptation. So, start with what you know, right? Stores that you visit on the regular, because you know what size you take there, you know their return and exchange policy, and most importantly, you're familiar with their inventory. This leads me to number 2...

2. Make a wish list :: This is key, especially for retailers that only have a couple sales a year. You get the sale email, heart starts pounding, and you need to look at everything, yes? Well, no. If we stick to rule number one, and this is one of your favorite shops, go straight for your wish list. If you're not familiar with this feature, get into it. Sites will let you quickly bookmark your favorite pieces (and input your size and the color you want) so you can reference the pieces whenever: like during a sale. So, you get that sale email, you click through, and immediately go to your wish list. Boom, that blazer you've been after all season (remember, you know the store's inventory) is 40% off. Damn, you so fresh.

3. Filter sale by size :: Okay so number 2 is all well and fine, but sometimes, you go through your beloved wish list and nothing is on sale. You could just click hit that little red X at the top left of your browser, but what's the fun in that? So, be kind to yourself and filter out the sale. Filter by size, or filter by item (say you really want to scope out shoes for work), that way the volume of the sale isn't quite so overwhelming. 

4. Double check :: This is always key, especially if you're buying a big ticket item. Before you go through with your purchase, copy the item name and paste it into your browser. A 2-second task that has saved me hundreds of dollars over the years. Just because something is on sale, doesn't mean you can't still pay less for it somewhere else, right? Google will let you know immediately if your item is less expensive elsewhere  (a department store, Amazon, etc).

5. Wait (if you can) ::  I definitely have a penchant for manically swooping through a sale and hitting purchase after about 90 seconds of searching. Sure, sale items move quickly, especially coveted pieces, and if you've made it through the first 4 steps here, you're probably good to go with your purchase. Sometimes, though, we need to think it through. Ask yourself why you're buying the item. Ask yourself how you'll wear the item (the rule of thumb is 3 different ways or you need to check yourself). Get up, get some water, take a pee break, I'm not kidding. Text your sister and see what she thinks (this is what I do). I'd say about half the time, if you give your brain a second to get past the high of I'M BUYING SOMETHING, you'll realize that you don't really need it in the first place. 

Thoughts, questions, comments? Have a wonderful Thursday!

xoxo,

aok

10 shopbop sale finds

I don't think I'll ever really be able to convey my love for Shopbop; it has been my go-to one stop online retailer for 10 years. The newly released sale items are on point right now - plenty of sizes and plenty of pieces for 50% off. Here are 10 that I'm loving for me and for you: Screen Shot 2015-08-06 at 7.54.52 AM

$154 $77

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$284 $198

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$125 $87

 

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$165 $66

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$195 $136

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$238 $142

 

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$315 $126

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$176 $123

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$138 (not on sale I just love them :)

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$229 $160

Lots of light, airy pieces for to make the most out of the remains of summer, no?

xoxo,

ALLIE SIGNATURE

weds-day: what to wear before and after

When I picture my wedding, I think about allllll the wonderful outfits I get to wear - not just the dress. As soon as we began planning, my mind was instantly brainstorming what I would wear to the rehearsal dinner, getting ready, and to the next day's brunch. Leave it to me to make things extra complicated, but it really jazzes me up. As you may or may not know, there is a huge sale going on at Shopbop right now (use code BIGEVENT15 for 15% off 250+). In an effort to show you my favorite picks from their current inventory, the mood boards below consist of their pieces only (there's no incentive for me to do this, I just love sales and I love weds-day).

 

Here's what I'm thinking:

3_4_15_wedsday_rehearsal// dress // clutch // earrings (more affordable here) // shoes (more affordable here) //

I've been dreaming about layering in some lamé for the wedding. I love the subtle sexiness of this dress, and I appreciate the pop of color and metal mixing that the shoe adds. A low chignon with some statement earrings rounds out this look for me.

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// sweatshirt // sweatpants // sandals // makeup pouch //

Ever since Juicy Couture's sweatsuits, I've always wanted a monogrammed sweatsuit for my wedding. I still kind of want one, even though I know I will be judged for it. Above is a modern alternative - cheeky sweatshirt, uber comfy sweats, pedicure friendly sandals, and a coveted make up bag (do any of you own a bag by Anya Hindmarch? I've heard wonderful things). The only thing missing from this mood board is a hefty dose of Klonipan...

Post-wedding brunch will likely be a nod to my favorite outfit - Rag and Bone black denim, Alexander Wang tee, and sneaks. Hmm, maybe I'll spring for some Yeezy Boosts.

What did you all wear for your pre and post wedding festivities? Any suggestions or tips? I'd love to hear!

xoxo,

ALLIE SIGNATURE

shopbop friends and family sale!

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from left to right: Hunter Jacket // Sunglasses // Tory Burch Boots // Fringe Bag // Boucle Dress // Jeans //

Black Blouse // Earrings // Bucket Bag // Necklace // Tee // Watch //

Herringbone Coat // Crystal Earrings // Vest // Leather look pants // Weekend Bag //

Star Button Down (sold out - more Equipment here) // Brown Bag // Grey Blouse // Suede Pumps // Lounge Pants

25% off SITEWIDE (exclusions apply) with code FAMILY25!

Enjoy, and don't forget to enter this week's giveaway!

xoxo,

ALLIE SIGNATURE